So, after dating "Mr. Right" for several months, you thought you had found your "forever man," your "knight in shining armor." You loved the same food, laughed at the same jokes and were great together in bed. You were positive he was going to say the "L" word at any moment. Then, suddenly, he stopped calling. At first you were shocked, then sad and then angry. You can't believe you were so naïve, so easy. And you can't stop replaying the whole scenario in your mind and asking what went wrong? What should you have done differently? And most of all, how could he do this to you?

You try to remember your last date, the last time you made love and the last conversation. You continue to ask yourself over and over, "was I too needy, were my breasts too small, or my thighs too big? Was I not a good enough lover, not attentive enough, too old or too young?" And on and on until you think you may be going insane.

You call your girlfriends and hash it over and over until you just can't stand yourself anymore, and your girlfriends are tired of hearing about it too. But all of you agree that it wasn't you. You are beautiful, smart and funny. So, if it wasn't you, then the issues must have been with him. Yes, he must have some sort of psychological issues, or perhaps he is a drug addict. Maybe the Mafia is after him, or he's gay. Yes, that must be it. After all, he seemed so sensitive and he enjoyed romantic movies, didn't he? Then you decide he's not gay, so it must have been that he was married and separated from his wife. Yes, married with three children who needed him.

You call your girlfriends back to go over these new scenarios, over and over and over. If he's not married, you discuss the possibilities of trying to get him back. Should you call him, show up at his work or follow him?

You decide not to give in because you desperately want him back, or at least want to know why he dumped you. You continue to devise plans to get him back but nothing seems to be working. If only you knew what to do.

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