When it comes to love it seems some women have all the luck, but is it really luck?

You know the type, she may be plain looking and yet she seems to be able to charm any man right off his feet.

If she's in a relationship her man is totally dedicated to her, or if she's single there is no shortage of men in her life.

What is that special quality about these women that keep their men coming back for more?

As Bob Grant explains in his book The Women Men Adore it's all in her attitude. She knows that as a women it's up to her to take charge of the relationship and lead it to where she wants it to go.

Face it, if there's no conflict in a relationship, men tend to feel that everything is just fine and will go on their merry way.

Deep emotions are a foreign concept to them, and they need to be led into true love.

The women that are really successful with men don't rely on using silly little games to influence a man, they just instinctively know when and how to pull the right emotional triggers.

They know how to give a man the feeling that she genuinely likes him.

They are able to put him at ease rather than get his guard up.

It's a combination of little things like how she talks and how she looks at him that influence his feelings for her.

Most importantly she understands that she's responsible for her own happiness, she doesn't put it on his shoulders.

These women can bring out very strong emotions in a man without making him feel overwhelmed.

Ladies the ideal relationship isn't one where you are competing with each other or even where you are equal in all ways.

It's one where you compliment each others personalities and abilities to form a stronger whole.

I mentioned The Women Men Adore earlier, it's worth reading. Check my review on it.

©2010 Gary Caine

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