How To Ruin Your Online Dating Success
by
Elena Solomon These days you seldom meet a single person who never tried online dating - unless they aren't Internet users. Since you are reading this, I assume you ARE online - so this information can be crucial for your online dating success. Most people placing personal ads on Internet dating sites seem to do everything to RUIN any of their chances for success. Are you one of them? Here is how to ruin your online dating campaign: 1. CHOOSE A SLEAZY USER NAME Dating sites usually display your user name in your personal profile. So, if you choose something like "hardcoreXXX" or "badgirl_69", you are sure to mess up your chances dramatically. 2. WRITE A TIMID MESSAGE Every day I see people writing in their messages things like, "I hate this part but here it goes", "I never know what to write here" or simply "Ask me". Your personal message is the only thing in your profile that is UN-structured - the rest are usually just tick boxes. Make sure you don't say anything interesting here, so no one will feel compelled to learn more about you. 3. DON'T HAVE ANY PARTNER REQUREMENTS Your requirements for a partner say VOLUMES about YOU. If you do not have any requirements for a partner, you will sound absolutely desperate. No one is attracted to desperate people. 4. DON'T UPLOAD A PHOTO Most users of dating sites search for profiles with photos. If you do not upload your photo, no one will find your ad. It will also severely damage the chances of your "Hi's", "Virtual Kisses" or "Smiles" being answered. 5. DON'T PAY FOR PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP Usually online dating sites will allow you to place your personal ad for free, but to write to other singles, you have to buy a subscription. Although the price of subscription is cheaper than the price of a movie ticket and popcorn, you should not be tempted. By sticking with the free membership, you ensure you cannot contact anyone. Also some sites place ads of premium members on top of the search results. If you do not pay, your ad will appear on the page 247 of the search results - which will make it nearly impossible to find. 6. DON'T CONTACT OTHER MEMBERS Most online dating services will allow you to contact other members for free by sending a "Hi", "Virtual Kiss", "Icebreaker" or "Smile" - an expression of interest, to which the other member can respond. Don't send any of those to anyone, or they may just answer positively. Think only about how bad would you feel if they rejected your advances. 7. DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR AD Don't attempt to change anything in your ad. If you change something, it may just start working. Keep with what doesn't produce any results. 8. DON'T LOGIN TO THE WEBSITE - EVER Once you placed your personal ad, immediately forget about it - and forget your user name and password, too. Don't login to the website again. If you do, your ad may jump to the top of the search results and someone may write to you. Don't take this risk. Just place the ad and forget about it. If you follow this simple guidance, I can guarantee that you will flawlessly ruin any chances for success with online dating sites and your love life will stay just the way it is! 
Elena Solomon is a dating coach. Her latest book "12 Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It is a textbook how to bring your love life to the level of evolved dating. This book shows you EXACTLY how you can develop yourself into a self-confident and happy person who attracts people naturally. ©2008 Elena Solomon
Back To Article IndexHow to be Irresistibly Attractive
Whether it is on stage or in real life we all know the "x" factor when we see it! But can we produce our own individual "x factor"? In this book Matthew Whiting's radical new approach to "being irresistibly attractive" will show you how to: Master these personal strategies for more Passion:
This comprehensive guide is jam packed with tonnes of information, over 185 A4 pages! It is written in a tongue-in-cheek manner which is easy to follow, and you are sure to enjoy. Once you experience the marvelous changes that Matthew Whiting enables you to make, you can shape your relationships and other life circumstances exactly as you'd like them to be. Some people, in their desire to attract a girlfriend/boyfriend, pay a lot of money to attend expensive seminars... and they then forget 90% of the information thrown at them... Have you paid money to attend a seminar such as this? If you buy "How to be Irresistibly Attractive to the Opposite Sex", you can literally save yourself a lot of money, and retain 100% of the information we provide... because we give you lifetime access to our entire online guide. |
Special Report - Just For Women:
This Special Report gives you insights From A Man's Perspective of what men Really find captivating in a woman. - Stop listening to your girlfriends and let an expert tell you the Real Secrets to a Man's Heart! ENTER EMAIL BELOW
Your privacy is very important to us! We won't share your information Creating Relationship Magic
Whatever you want--whether it's love, friendship, more passion, a partner on the Spiritual Path, a connected Relationship or a companion of the heart this book will help you identify how you can have it. With the information in the E-Book, "Creating Relationship Magic", You'll discover how to identify and eliminate the biggest challenges and issues we all face in our relationships and start creating the relationship you've always wanted in your life. 
|
