Honor and Respect Your Partner's Feelings As If They Are Your Own

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	Honor and Respect Your Partner's Feelings As If They Are Your Own by This week I want to focus on an essential relationship behavior that you will want to practice, become good at and use frequently with your Honey: ...Honor and respect your partner's feelings as if they are your own Our feelings are the barometer of our outside existential lives. Our feelings let us know how things are going for us inside ourselves. Feelings exist because they do, in and of themselves. We cannot choose to change, modify, not feel, or otherwise positively or negatively affect our feelings. The only choices we have are directly related to our behavior. Feelings are as normal as hunger and fatigue. When we dismiss, diminish, ridicule, criticize, mock, belittle, disparage or demean anyone's feelings we are acting in the most disrespectful and unloving way. Next time your Honey (or anyone in your life, for that matter) expresses a feeling, consider hearing the feeling as a sacred offering. Be curious and compassionate. Remember: It is not your job to fix anything. She or he is not broken. It isn't necessary to offer insights, suggestions, give answers or otherwise provide brilliant advice or express profound guidance. Don't get distracted by the content of the event. Stay with the feeling(s). Your Sweetheart is experiencing and expressing normal, natural human emotion. Here are 3 simple, loving behaviors: Listen with your heart. Tell your partner that he or she matters to you and that their feelings are important to you. Ask if there is anything you can do or say right now that would be helpful. Believe that your presence and your caring go a long way to soothe hurt and upset hearts. Very often people know what they need or what might be helpful. When they don't, the 3 simple loving behaviors are enough!!! Try it and let me know how it goes! Only you can make it happen! Dr. Jackie's Coaching Mission: Dr. Jackie's mission is to challenge you to explore the old beliefs, old expectations and outdated values which cause you pain; to awaken you to the new realities of relationships; to revitalize you so that you will be ready to welcome the ideal partner when he or she comes into your life; and provide tools to couples based on a contemporary model for marriage and commitment. www.DrJackieBlack.com 1.888.792.6224 ©1999-2004 Show All Articles By Dr. Jackie Black, Ph.D. Back To Article Index Women Made Easy For the man who wants more than to just get laid... Women Made Easy will teach you how to be any woman's prince, the man she brags about to her girlfriends, the man who knows how to make a woman happy. Here's advice you won't find just anywhere. Most dating and relationship advice written for men is only aimed at the short-term laison. That's fine but if you're looking for more then Women Made Easy is just what you've been searching for. Not Just Another "How To Get Laid" Book. This Book Is Written By a Woman Who Knows What Women Want Become a more sensitive, pleasing lover so that she will want to make love a whole lot more often, and with much more enthusiasm and abandon. You have the power to move your lovemaking to the next level of intimacy and knock-her-socks-off passion. If you're a man who's discovered that sex is better when there's love... If you're a man who enjoys making his woman happy... If you're a man who wants to be a better lover and take his woman to the stars... If you're a man who doesn't think a great lady could fall in love with a guy like you... If you're a man who has a woman who never seems to be happy with you... Then you need to read Women Made Easy Now it's time to write that book because too many men have requested that I help them understand women so they can have a better chance of creating a happy, harmonious relationship that can also be filled with love and passion. So, for you men who are looking for more than just to get laid, I offer Women Made Easy. You'll be happy to know that there is a companion eBook called How To Please a Man In & Out of Bed for your lady to read. Kara Oh The Dating Delimma It's not easy meeting quality women and the older you get, the more difficult it is. This chapter will, hopefully, give you some new ideas about where you can meet women and what to do when you do meet someone you'd like to get to know better. It also will give you some food for thought about what to look for in a woman and what to watch out for. When you're young and your hormones are running the show, you're not thinking the same way as when you've been married, had your children, and are looking for a new partner. Nothing like maturity to give you wisdom. If you're looking for more then Women Made Easy is just what you've been searching for.
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