Did you know to meet your perfect partner you must have written goals, a vision and a strategy? If you are commited to being in a lasting relationship you will make it a top priority in your life. This means developing a written plan on how you are going to accomplish your goals. Remember if you don't have your goals in writing it is not a goal only a dream. The book Find Lasting Love helps you to develop your vision, strategy and detailed goals.

Having a vision works in business and it can work when you are trying to find a partner to spend your life with as well. Developing a vision is your first step in finding your perfect partner. What is it that you want in your ideal partner?

Appearance
Some examples: age, hair color, height, build....

Personality Traits
Some examples: witty, honest

Interests & Hobbies
Some examples: sailing, camping

Relationship Style:
Some examples: Affectionate, Sentimental, faithful, likes to listen, likes to talk

Values:
Some examples: Believes in God, Republican, Democrat

Other areas not listed:
Include anything here that doesn't fit in the above categories.

• Find out what is really important to you:
• For each quality you listed visualize what it would be if your partner had that quality.
• Would it really make a difference?
• What would happen if your partner didn't have that quality?
• What difference would that make?

Visualize meeting your perfect partner.
What do they look like? What top three qualities do they have?
Write a paragraph describing how you will feel when you first meet your partner. Be sure to include what they look like, and the qualities they will have.

Your subconscious mind can move you toward your goal or away from it. Having a vision of who you want to meet helps program your subconscious mind to move toward meeting your perfect partner. Visualize your perfect partner clearly and emotionally and eventually your perfect partner will appear.

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