Relationship Problems: When You've Messed Up With A Guy

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	Relationship Problems: When You've Messed Up With A Guy by Mimi Tanner This relationship problem is one of the toughest: We've all done it - let our emotions get the best of us when it comes to a man - and as a result, we may have said or done something that we wish we had not done. You may have experienced that awful feeling when you have poured out your soul to a man and have expressed your love to him - and what is the response? He suddenly becomes very polite, thanks you for a nice evening, says he'll call, and promptly leaves! Yowch. I hate hearing about these scenarios when I get emails from women who are in a LOT of pain. It usually is because they let loose with the guy too soon in some way or another. It can also happen when you tell yourself that if only this guy felt your love, it would cure his problem of being afraid to love. The funny thing about many men is this: they can get cured all right. But not like that. A man doesn't want you to solve his problem. Not the kind of man you want, anyway. How does a man get cured of his commitment fear and all that jazz? By falling head over heels in love with a woman. It's amazing that the very same guys who tell you that they are afraid of commitment are the ones who can be very vulnerable to the "right" woman whose presence takes their commitment fears away. What makes a man fall head over heels in love and stay in love? 1. Because he considers you to be beautiful and charming. I'm not talking about model beauty, either. Women with model beauty often report that no one ever asks them out! (When Maurice Boland interviewed me on the radio, he said that he married a beautiful model who is still gorgeous some 27 years later - and the reason he was able to marry her is partly due to the fact that most other men were scared to ask her out because of her beauty!) 2. Because the woman of his choice is NOT making it easy for him every step of the way - to talk to her, to spend time with her. She is NOT trying to solve all his problems - or any of his problems. 3. Because the woman projects self-care and confidence. When a man sees a confident woman, it gives him a sense of certainty. When you are confident, a man sees you as 20 times more beautiful than he did before. 4. Because the woman has her act together. Much more on that later on - that requires much more discussion. And how do you recover from an embarrassing gaffe with any man? Easy, sweetie. Just act like it was nothing. Act like it doesn't matter. Hold your head up and laugh about the incident - or else, never mention it again - never!! And for yourself - don't even think about it ever again, either. Learn from it and move on. Do NOT beat yourself up over anything. That is not self-respect! Relationship problems are really challenges - which can be taken on with positive results! Mimi Tanner reveals the secrets of flirting and getting the attention of your man. Her emails are read by thousands of women every day. Check out Secrets of Flirting With Men. You may reprint this article if this statement is included, with all links unchanged. ©2006 Mimi Tanner Show All Articles By Mimi Tanner Back To Article Index Secrets of Flirting with Men Do you know how to flirt? When was the last time you flirted? Think it over... You are never - never - too young or too old to flirt. In fact, I can only think of ONE situation in which someone should NOT flirt, and that would be if you happen to be a nun. You're not a nun? I thought not. Okay, there went your last excuse for not flirting regularly. Oh, you're married? All the more reason to flirt. You have a live-in flirting partner. Flirting is a subject which is very close to my heart, and always has been. Since I was a teenager, I have been studying every book in the world on how to get a man and how to make a man happy. Since I was a teenager, I have been studying every book in the world on how to get a man and how to make a man happy. When you really, truly love a subject, that's when you can teach people about it. I created the "Secrets of Flirting with Men" class, and it's my "baby." Even if you have no earthly interest in flirting (in which case, we need to check your pulse immediately), take a look at what sparked my own interest in flirting at the tender age of twelve. If you have not been flirting lately, then you just don't know what you've been missing - and maybe it's time to come alive again. Advanced students of flirting and getting a man's attention will want to learn more. How to have a hypnotic effect on a man. How to get inside a man's head and meet his deepest psychological needs These things are part of my class on flirting: Secrets of Flirting With Men How to meet his deepest psychological needs is only discussed at the very end of the class - for reasons that are explained in the book. Secrets of Flirting With Men
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