A man is walking down the street minding his business when all of a sudden he gets hit by a thunderbolt. Walking towards him is a woman so beautiful, so sexy his breath becomes shallow. His mind starts running through different methods to meet this woman. The woman gets closer to him, smiles slightly and walks past him. That evening he does one of three things: sit at home by himself wondering how come he didn't say anything; hang out with a group of friends who are telling him what they would have done in that situation; go to an Internet message board where other equally frustrated men tell him what he should have done.

Men are not buying dating and seduction books to win the love of the homely girl who might make the best wife. Men are not frequenting message boards and shelling out thousands of dollars to learn the inner workings of a woman 100 pounds overweight with a pleasant personality. Men want to learn how to get with the super-attractive woman, the dyme, the SHB10, the hot babe; you know what I'm talking about. Men will master canned routines and other methods but will fall short of the goal to meet and date a beautiful woman. In most cases the woman will flatly reject the man. The reason is not that he said the wrong things. The issue is that his aura didn't say the right things.

The word "aura" is thrown around a lot in metaphysic circles, usually in relation to subtle electro-magnetic energy that surrounds the human body. Another way to look at the aura is the non-verbal presentation one makes to the people around them. For example, a man tells you he has slept with ten women in the past month. He sounds convincing as he tells you the lines he used and the details of each encounter. While he is telling you this you mentally note that he is ugly, overweight, poorly dressed, and is obnoxious. A part of you wants to believe him because it gives you hope than an "ordinary" guy can get laid, but in the back of your mind you wonder how could he possibly be appealing to women since his aura suggests that they wouldn't find him attractive.

Another example is when a man tells you he hasn't slept with a woman in two years. You immediately think he is lying or gay despite how sincere he sounds. The man is handsome, masculine, dresses well and has money; the image suggests that he wouldn't have any problem getting a woman.

Only seven percent of communication between two people is verbal and conscious. Thus ninety three percent of communication is non-verbal and subconscious. Obviously the subconscious/non-verbal communication will carry more weight. Most relationships fail because people are not compatible on a subconscious level. To the greatest extent possible a man wants to strive for subconscious compatibility with a beautiful woman.

My new ebook, Meeting Super-Attractive Women, provides a step-by-step development plan for men to transform themselves into someone compatible on a subconscious level with beautiful women. The development plan doesn't require a man to learn canned routines. A man needs only a firm commitment to self-improvement. With this improvement a man can meet the woman of his dreams.

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