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Ever Dream Of Hooking Up With A Stunningly Pretty Chick? Now You Can Make That Wish A Reality!

As men, we believe that we are smart. (Okay, okay stop your wolfish grin now.)

We always project our strong masculinity, especially when it comes to meeting pretty women. We want to let her know we are "the boss", so to speak.

"I always strive to act as the smart "macho" type when I'm around with beautiful women, "insists Larry, a call center attendant. "I'm sure other guys do the same."

And smart men always act smart.

They won't fidget, stammer, or behave like scared stiff kindergarten boy in front of pretty woman. (Me? Of course not! What are you nuts?)

Well, guys, you could be in for some nasty surprise.

Canadian psychologists Margo Wilson and Martin Daly of McMaster University in Hamilton, Canada conducted a study that proves men act irrational in front of pretty women.

"We are curious to discover what prompt men to risk a fortune in the present of a beautiful maiden," says Margo Wilson. "We want to know why."

The research involved 209 male and female students.

Professors Wilson and Daly showed them several pictures of the opposite sex taken from the website "Hot Or Not".

Afterwards, the researchers offered students cash rewards of $15 to $35 the day after. Or the students could opt for a greater cash reward of $50 to $75 at some later date.

When male students were shown pictures of women with average beauty, the students chose the future but greater reward.

"This suggests that these students are thinking rationally," explains Prof. Daly.

However, when researchers showed the same set of male students the pictures of beautiful women, these students disregarded the value of future big cash and instead chose the prompt but lesser monetary rewards.

"We do not yet understand the psychological reasons behind these results, "says Margo Wilson. " But we believe that viewing pictures of pretty women was mildly arousing to males, activating neural mechanisms associated with cues of sexual opportunity."

On the other hand, female students always made rational decisions regardless of whether the pictures shown to them were handsome men or not.

What does this study results mean to us?

Simple.

It means that Nature programmed our haughty "male brain" to go nuts if we see a beautiful woman. We are wired to act "weirdly foolish" ---stammer, fidget, restless, etc...in the presence of these attractive female specie.

That explains why 99% of men are still at a loss how to approach, much less initiate conversation, with pretty women.

But don't fret. Just like any computer, our male brain can be "rewired" or adjusted, so to speak, to shed its self-defeating program and be "tweaked" for peak performance.

"Easy for you to say, Wise Guy, "you snicker. " Cut the BS get to the point."

Okay. I hear you. And here's the lowdown.

Our reactions can be "programmed" differently, just like Pavlov's successful experiment with the dog.

Remember him?

I need not recount here in detail about his groundbreaking studies. It's enough for you to know that you can deal with your "fidgeting" when in front of a beautiful woman. You can dispense with silly kindergarten boy act. . That's right.

You can walk right in front of ANY beautiful woman and attract her.

Here's how:

You PRACTICE.

Those gymnasts at the recently concluded Beijing Olympics were not born with their dazzling antics that mesmerized the audience. Rather, it was the result of practice, practice, and more practice.

But what should you practice?

a.) Practice Speaking With Pleasant Voice

To begin with, practice talking with a pleasant voice. (You really do not think that you can attract women with a high-pitch, hurried, and mumbling voice of yours, do you?)

Speak slowly.

Practice speaking at family dinners.

Speak softly to your brothers and sisters. Speak with deliberate control. Get a voice recorder and listen to your prattle.

Practice speaking in front of a mirror. Study your facial expressions when speaking and make necessary improvements.

b.) Practice Speaking In Front of Women

You could start with that ugly female neighbor of yours. Or that freckled-nosed pizza delivery woman. (Now, now, don't give me THAT face, you silly! Remember that they are your stepping-stone to success).

If you want, try speaking with your high school sister's classmates when they drop by at your place.

c.) Practice Your Dialogue

Some guys were born with witty conversation skills. Others were not. In fact, majority of us aren't conversational at all. If you belong to the latter, it is important that you practice catchy, original dialogues. Like, "I noticed that cool design in your fingernails. What made you choose that design?"

Or the all-time successful "Please pardon for my saying so but your eyelashes are really cool on you. How did you achieve that?"

Which works extremely well if you say it sincerely.

...And if you really want to take it to the next level, then I suggest you walk up to an attractive woman and say "I think you're cute... I just had to come over and say hi."

When you pull this off confidently, then you'll seeing impressive results in your dating life.

Don't take my word for it.

Try it out yourself!

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Oliver Turner is the author of "Daytime Pick-Up Revealed"- Every Man's Guide To Meeting Women In Normal Places", and has helped thousands of men, from all walks of life, meet more women, get more dates, get girlfriends, basically giving them the ultimate power and choice with women and dating. He also publishes a free online Dating Tips newsletter, available at www.captivatetoconnect.com


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