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	Mutual Desire by Henry Velez But what we cannot do is tell ourselves that all we want is a pretty face or a handsome physique to be happy with a mate. Beyond Mutual Desire by Henry Velez What does it mean to 'forsake all others? How To Argue Like Cats And Dogs by Henry Velez If you two haven't had a decent argument in all these years, somebody's not saying what's really on their mind. Wedding Invitation Dos And Don'ts by Matt Jacks You are getting married, which leads inevitably to the potential minefield of wedding invitation etiquette. Finding The Perfect Wedding Location by Matt Jacks So you know whom, but now, where? The perfect location is of course relative to you and your betrothed. How Do you Know When It's Love? by Craig Owen What do I mean when I say love is a choice? Love is a decision we make, a matter of the will. Temptation Mainland by Laurie Wiegler But then, I'm bitter. At 39, I know I'm not "Temptation" material - and it hurts. The Ghosts of Valentines Past by Laurie Wiegler I don't think that, at our age, just because we get into a relationship we just immediately forget the previous ones, right? 10 Quick Ideas For Romance by Ruth D. Kerce Do something different There Is No Perfection In Romance by Ruth D. Kerce No good men. No good women. That's the chant of those still looking for love A Guy's Guide to Romance: 10 Easy Ways to Be Romantic by Gregory Godek The survey was conducted to give guys easy and effective ways to add romance to their lives. 5 Stages Of Love by Ruth D. Kerce What are the stages of love? Love develops between two partners in several different levels. What Do You Want? by Henry Velez The more I think of it, it seems almost as though a strange sense of acceptable insanity has become the norm The Art of Intimacy, The Pleasure of Passion by Mel Schwartz The question we must ask ourselves is, "Who are we pretending to be?" And why? The Wandering Eye Issue by Henry Velez Among the many things that can ignite a heated discussion on an otherwise peaceful day is the issue of the 'wandering eye'. The History of Weddings - Tying the Knot through the Ages by Matt Jacks Precisely where and when the first wedding was held will never be known, but it was an important turning point in human society. Jealousy by Henry Velez Do you think jealousy is a sign of devoted love or hidden insecurity? The Dangers of Instant Romance by Beverly Engel Is love at first sight really possible or is it just infatuation? Does it take time to know whether we are really in love or can we know right away? Thoughts About Relationships. by Rinatta Paries This week I was thinking about some of the lessons and concepts learned by my clients and me. When Things Go Wrong - Part One: The Basic by Henry Velez For all we may learn of the proper principles in relating to both friends and lovers, misunderstandings are as unavoidable as a gust of wind on a clear sunny day When Things Go Wrong - Part Two by Henry Velez In this installment we'll move on to the next level of difficulty by taking a look at 'intentional' offenses. When Things Go Wrong - Part Three by Henry Velez In our last two installments we looked at getting into trouble and how to deal with the issues of 'offense' and 'forgiveness'. Today we'll take a look at what to do when the pressure of the situation has passed. Why do we keep attracting same types of partners, even when we try not to? by Rinatta Paries Ever notice that people attract the same types of partners over and over again? Isn't it perplexing to see a friend end a bad relationship, swear that they will never again date a person with X qualities, and then end up dating a new partner that has those same X qualities? Love At First Sight by Henry Velez I've been asked several times, "Henry, do you believe in love at first sight?" My answer is always the same... Being Engaged by Henry Velez What we'll be looking at today specifically is the milestone of 'engagemen What Does She Expect Anyway? by Gary Caine OK, you aren't the romantic type, neither am I. You don't need to write love poems or send her flowers every day. Little things can make a big difference. Being Wanted by Henry Velez We do not want to be loved for what we have or can provide, we want to be loved for who we are. Why we don't do what we should do by Rinatta Paries In relationships, people find what they know they should or need to do is vastly different from what they actually do. Maturity in Relationships by Larry James Maturity is the ability to harness your abilities and your energies and to do more than is expected in your relationships. Are You The Jealous Type? by Allen Thompson Never forget that women are attracted to confidence in men. If a woman realizes that you're lacking in self-confidence then she'll lose respect for you. Giving In To Relationship Changes by Moreah Vestan It's NOT all or nothing Ready For Marriage by Henry Velez Questions that can make the difference between making a lasting marital commitment, or perhaps not making that commitment until the time is right. How We Affect Each Other's Lives. by Rinatta Paries Do you know what kind of an affect you have on other people?; It is important to other's well being for you ... Building And Enduring by Henry Velez The most positive, healthy relationship we could hope to have is one in which both parties focus more on giving rather than taking.. Be My V-A-L-E-N-T-I-N-E All Year Long! by Larry James Let's begin with the premise that relationships are something that must be worked on all the time, not only when they are broken and need to be fixed! Being "Just Friends by Henry Velez There is a situation among singles that can rob us of potential friendships. It is the well known scenario of hearing those words... "Let's just be friends. Friends and Lovers by Larry James I believe that no matter how committed my forever love relationship, I will always be single as well as a part of a couple... Relationships and growth. by Rinatta Paries Most people have a fantasy about relationships. It goes something like this: One day they will meet the right partner...Magic will happen... What Women Want From A Relationship With Men - Part 1 by Debbie Anderson It is really simple....women want the same things from a relationship that men want from the relationship. Women want to be number one in the eyes of their beloved...first priority...the main banana! What Women Want From A Relationship With Men - Part 2 by Debbie Anderson Men now need to ask themselves, "what can I bring to this relationship that will induce the woman of my dreams to share my life? Creating Intimacy by Allen Thompson We could probably write an entire book on classical conditioning and how it influences our love lives, our relationships, and our emotions. Baby Step Goals by Randy Hurlburt Based on the goals we can decide on action steps. Because we can't be sure if we'll live another 5 years, the best we can do is be happy with each step. How to Get the Spark Back in Your Love Life by Jaci Rae These three things have always been a common thread for every successful and happy relationship I have interviewed over the years. Page 1 2 3 4 5 Back To The Main Article List Love Made Simple What have you done for love? Are you like many men and women -- single or married -- who twist and turn themselves inside out trying to match what they think love is SUPPOSED TO BE? That great SUPPOSED TO BE -- that's supposed to exist out there somewhere - that everybody chases but no one seems to find. That great SUPPOSED TO BE -- that's supposed to bring you happiness for a lifetime - but causes too many men and women to end up whispering - "Is this all there is?" That great SUPPOSED TO BE -- that you know - you just know - that if you ever got it - everything would be okay. You tell yourself that's what you really believe . . . REALLY . . . Except . . . in the shadows of the night . . . When you wonder if that's all just an illusion . . . a story you tell yourself to get by. Is love supposed to be so complicated? That's what soap operas sell. Complexity. Drama. Intrigue. Tension. The more twists and turns the better . . . Sadly that's what many men and women believe love is and should be. They live their lives as soap operas and, just like in the soaps, love is usually the source of most of their pain. Is that how it is for you? Is your experience of love a gnarly maze of feelings and thoughts, held together by hopes and wishes? Or is love something other people have but not you? "I'm in a pretty good marriage," you say, "and this all sounds so extreme." Sure, it may sound that way to you . . . But what about those moments when you and your partner crash into blind spots . . . Out in the wilderness of your relationship where you haven't got things worked out yet . . . Something you haven't been paying attention to erupts. Like a volcano. And you're left with a tangled mess you need to unravel. Order LOVE MADE SIMPLE
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