Your Looks could really mean Less
to a Fine Female if You know this.
If there's one thing that is certain in the dating world it is that being a challenge, staying strong in the presence of women, and acting like James Bond are all sure-fire ways to get in a woman's pants. And you want to know why? Because all of these things make a guy look like an in-charge, tough, mysterious man who knows how to please a woman. Unless the guy is ugly of course, then he just comes off looking like an ugly asshole. Because the truth is that most dating guides are written for average to good-looking people who just haven't quite figured out, well, anything in terms of how to act around a woman.
That's why an ugly dude could go through hundreds of dating books and ebooks and still not come away with a female. He's reading material that's obviously written for another group of guys. Thankfully, Matthew Doeing took this into account and decided to lend a helping hand to non-attractive men everywhere when he wrote The Ugly Man's Guide to Getting Laid. Finally, something written for those who can't use their baby blues to seduce a hottie.
So since ugly guys can't use their looks to lure a girl in, or even get her to glance in their direction, what are they to do about the approach? Doeing explains that the approach is all determined by the vibe one is getting from a certain girl's eye contact. And what he proposes is to actually look at a girl until she catches you looking at her. Look, not stare. Based on what actions she takes, you'll now know if she has an interest in you or thinks you're totally unattractive without ever speaking a word to her.
So what happens if you do gauge interest from your eye contact games with her? Doeing says that there is an easy and natural way to approach the woman of interest without looking like a bumbling fool. Simply start the conversation with the obvious such as the band that is playing great in the bar, the magazine that she is browsing through at the store, and so forth.
Another thing that I really like about Doeing's ebook is that he provides a good example of the personality that will keep an already interested woman around in his "how to be possitively addicting" chapter. Earlier in the ebook he covers the black hole that an ugly guy who wallows in self-pity can slide into and this chapter is the antidote to that section. He gives ways to be possitvely addicting such as the positive effect that even forced feelings can have on a hopeful player and he gives some great examples of guys who weren't exactly the hottest guys but still were able to be surrounded by the opposite sex.
Some people might get the wrong impression about Matthew's ebook though simply from the suggestion that the title might give. At first glance, this ebook seems like a guide to help self-loathers get into a woman's pants. However, this couldn't be farther from the truth as Doeing seems genuinely concerned not only with helping ugly guys date women, but also to be better human beings.
In my opinion, this is a rare combination in a market full of dating guides which normally cater to guys who are simply looking for the fastest way possible to get a girl in bed. As hokey as it sounds, Ugly Man's Guide to Getting Laid will not only help you land more women, but also land a better overall life for yourself.
The Singles Cafe 
