According to freedictionary.com, the words "pick up" are a verb phrase that sends different meanings.

It could mean to gather by hand, like pick-up firewood.

Or it could mean to buy, like pick up the electric drill at Wal-Mart.

"Hey, wise guy," you cut in.

"Is it also the same as saying pick up the cute saleslady at Wal-Mart?"

If you mean you want to buy her, no. Definitely not, kiddo.

Now let's go on with our discussion. And take note, this is the interesting part. Freedictionary.com states that to pick up is also a slang word that means "to become acquainted with for a sexual purpose".

"Aha," you exclaim with a knowing naughty look.

Your wide grin spreads from ear to ear. Glad you finally get it, kiddo. That is exactly what we have in mind in this article. To pick up women and eventually sleeping with her.

For some men, successfully picking up women needs no effort at all. It's no rocket science. To them, it seems just having a handshake and that's that. This smart-ass guy talks to the woman, she responds and they walk away together to some private place (and mind you, she's not the least bit a hooker!).

But for the rest of the ordinary guys, picking up women is one nasty ordeal. To them, it feels like fighting the gigantic gorilla, King Kong, in a hand-to-hand combat. The mere thought alone scares away the wits of any seemingly tough guy.

I know. Like you, I've had been there.

How in the world would you pick up women and discreetly convey to them "I would very much enjoy having sex with you" when you can hardly speak "How do you do?"

One hell of a challenge, indeed.

But I'll let you in on a little secret. Listen well for I will not say this twice.

You can do it. And you can do it easily.

In fact, you can attract any woman you want regardless of your looks, size of your bank account, or physical shape!

Here are the proven strategies you can instantly use to pick up women.

1.) CUT THE LEASH OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

Insecurities and self-doubts are the root of your problem.

Stumped?

Ok, let me explain a bit.

Imagine a puppy in a doghouse. A few meters away rolls a steaming hot bacon. The bacon looks so tasty and inviting. The puppy sees it. It wants to approach the bacon and gobble it up.

But it could not reach the food no matter how hard it tries. A leash reins it to a doghouse and keeps the poor puppy from going to the bacon.

Cutting the leash would surely solve his dilemma. But as long as the puppy remains on a leash, it will have practically no chances whatsoever of getting to the bacon (unless of course the bacon would pity the puppy and meekly roll down towards the helpless dog!).

"Come on, man", you remark impatiently. " In plain English, please."

The puppy is you, kiddo. The bacon is that cute pretty woman. You want to approach her and pick her up but you cannot. You insecurities and self-doubts is the leash that prevents you approaching that woman.

Know why? Because you think that she will reject you. You think that she will spurn your gesture. You think so many negative thoughts.

The result? You're stuck with your own fears. Your fears---your leash, if you will--- tie you down and prevent you from picking up women.

"So what should I do?" you ask.

Simple.

Cut your self-made leash. Banish all negative thoughts from your mind and replace it with positive ones.

Believe in yourself.

Believe you can do it.

Believe in your potential.

If you do, you will set yourself free and successfully pick up beautiful women you desired for so long.

2.) DEVELOP CONFIDENCE

You're scared to approach beautiful women?

So do most of the guys everywhere. You see, you're not alone.

The trick, then, is to gain confidence.

You can begin by enrolling in a public speaking class. When you know what to speak and how to speak it well, you've won half the battle.

3.) BE SOCIALLY KNOWLEDGEABLE

Do you just slump on the coach and watch football, basketball, or wrestling on TV and nothing else? I bet you do.

That's why you cannot think of any other topic to discuss with women except sports. Which, by the way, bores women to death.

The solution? Try to watch fashion shows. Yes, you heard it right. Fashion shows (now, don't look at me with that exasperated look on your face, kiddo!)

Also, browse through the newspaper and read about celebrities who had just divorced, shagged up together, or caught on camera with their pants down.

You can even go to the extent of learning about diamonds. If you can tell a woman the difference between a 12-carat diamond from a 24-carat one, that's a bonus. You see, women are interested to hear about celebrity scandals, fashion shows, and jewelries (though not necessarily in that order).

If not, then just go do something fun and exciting with your life so you have stories to tell women.

It's not rocket science, really.

Erase your negative beliefs.

Join a toast masters club or go do some improve. It will boost your overall confidence.

Learn how to connect with women in an interesting way.
Enough said.

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