There are poor kissers, there are mediocre kissers and then there are the rare few that can call themselves great kissers.

If you want to rank up there with the great kissers of the world here's a few tips for you.

It's not just what they do physically that makes a great kisser, it's the mental attitude they have to the whole process.

It's far more than knowing how to French kiss for example, but it's the reason behind why they are using their tongue.

When they kiss someone they are focused solely on that person. At the time of the kiss their whole world revolved around the kiss and nothing else.

The kiss just for the sake of the kiss, not as a prelude to sex. Men especially tend to think as kissing as a means to an end (sex).

The feel tenderness and love for the other person an express it in the kiss.

Try this - whisper to each other with your lips just touching. I guarantee that this will send shivers through both your bodies. You can feel the tenderness and I'd be surprised if both of your aren't longing for more.

Don't get into a rush and ruin the moment by jamming your tongue down her throat.

Take it slow, relax and make the kisses soft and gentle. Let the passion build on it's own.

Take clues from how he or she reacts to what you are doing, and proceed accordingly.

Open your mouth just a little and apply a very slight sucking motion. That's slight sucking you aren't trying to suck the air out of his or her lungs.

Keep your lips relaxed and soft, and don't slobber.

Use your hands to gently caress the other person. The arms, back, shoulders and face.

So I hope you understand that it's all about the experience, not any special technique.

If you want to know how to move on to French Kissing read
How To French Kiss - Doing It The Right Way

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