Let me ask you a question.

Do you have a problem approaching women?

Have you ever seen a woman you wanted to meet but you were just couldn't get yourself to approach her and talk to her? It's like there's something physically stopping your from doing it.

I know how frustrating it can be.

There have been times when I'd see an attractive woman but for some reason I was paralyzed with fear and I didn't know why.

I just couldn't explain it.

It was the kind of fear that's so powerful that it prevented me from saying something, anything, to get an interaction started.

If you've ever been in this situation before, then read on because today, I'll share some tips on approaching women. 3 Tips On How To Approach Women

How To Approach Women Tip # 1

Conquer approach anxiety.

Approach anxiety is that gut level fear that's stopping you from approaching women. You'll feel it every time you see a woman you'd like to meet.

The first thing to understand is that approach anxiety is normal. It's supposed to be there, or else guys would be scoring left and right, and we wouldn't even be here. So don't ever beat yourself up for feeling approach anxiety. It is just like feeling bad for having only two legs and not being able to fly.

If You Want To Conquer Approach Anxiety

You Must... Understand approach anxiety.

Approach anxiety is an interesting beast in many ways. Technically, it is the least difficult thing in meeting women: all you have to do is walk up to someone and begin a conversation.

You just need to get yourself in front of a woman and say "Hi!" and you're in the game. (In fact, one of the tricks I teach guys to overcome approach anxiety is called the 3-step technique: when you see a girl, take 3 steps toward her... and keep going! See, how easy is that.) Well it is probably the most powerful technique I have used to get rid of approach anxiety.

How To Approach Women Tip # 2

Eliminating Limiting Beliefs

What's the difference between a guy that can approach women without fear and nervousness and the guy that's just overwhelmed with anxiety?

Answer: What they're thinking about and where they're coming from. The guy that's confident knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that women will love him. All he has to do is walk up and start talking. He also knows that it's not such a big deal to meet women everywhere he goes.

It's just the way it is.

On the other hand, the guy that's nervous thinks about all the reasons why women will reject him. He thinks about all the worst scenarios possible and dwells on them. He comes up with reasons why he shouldn't talk to women. He becomes his own enemy.

Here's what's fascinating though. When you meet women for the first time, they don't know who you are. They can't read your mind.

You are who you believe yourself to be...

They don't know if you've dated a lot of women before or if you haven't dated anyone at all. You can act like you're confident and they will believe it. Or you can act like you're inexperienced and they will believe it too.

Your thoughts shape your actions. Your actions shape your behavior. Women will judge you based on your behavior.

So the bottom line is you need to change some of your beliefs about women and about yourself.

Beliefs that just drag you down and make you fail even before you start.

First step: you have to figure out what negative belief you want to get rid of.

Here's some examples:

"I can't talk to her because she doesn't go for guys like me"

"I'm not confident enough"

"If I get rejected people will find out about it and laugh at me"

These negative beliefs are very common. I should know, these examples are from my own life.

Second step: after you identify the beliefs you want to get rid of, I want you to start rethinking.

Question your belief.

Are you absolutely sure that your belief is true? If so, how do you know that it's true? Is there anyone out there that is living proof that your belief isn't true?

Women judge men based on their behavior and confidence

Third step: Gauge your reaction. How do you react whenever you believe that thought? What emotions do you feel? Anxiety? Nervousness? Tension?

Fourth step: For a second, just imagine the possibilities. Who would you be without that thought? What would your life be? How many women would you start meeting if you got rid of that thought.

I just gave you four steps to becoming self-aware and that is a big step to eliminating negative beliefs.

Really.

How To Approach Women Tip # 3

Master your approach.

You need to learn how to approach women consistently. If you want to start approaching women with ease, then you should start using techniques that work.

In my journey to getting this part of my life handled, I've tried hundreds of approaches to meeting women. Out of the hundreds I've tried, only a handful worked all the time.

Here's a technique you can use to approach women anywhere, at anytime you choose.

In this approach, I incorporate a little bit of flirting right off the bat. I've also used it more times than I can count and it has rarely failed.

EVER.

So let's say I'm walking down the beach and I see a beautiful woman sitting down by the shore.

I walk up to her and ask her a question.

It can be any question. If nothing comes up in your mind, then just ask her if she knows any good places to eat around the beach.

Now comes the best part. After hearing what she has to say, I look at her, smile and say "You know what... I was just kidding around. I'm from here and I know this place like the back of my hand. I just came here because I think you are cute and I wanted to get to know you a little bit.

Then she usually blushes and becomes speechless afterwards. This routine works like magic.

I'd say it works almost every single time I've tried to use it.

Don't take my word for it... Try it out!
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