Done right the French kiss is extremely sensual and romantic, done wrong and it is just gross.

The tongue is very sensitive which is why when done properly tongue to tongue kissing is so sensual.

If you have the opinion that French kissing ranks right up there with groping each other I hope you will have a different outlook after reading this article.

Of course some people make it crude by jamming their tongue down your throat or acting like they are in a sword fight with the tongues being the sword.

Don't be that person and if your partner is doing it, take in the role of a teacher.

You may have to say "slow down" verbally, but it is far better to demonstrate. Back of and then start over with some gentle kisses using just the lips.

Start off with making soft contact by just barely touching each others lips.

Then open your mouth just a little and make gentle movements with your lips.

Trace the outline of his or her lips with your tongue.

If you feel her tongue meeting yours then caress the tip of her tongue with yours.

Move on to stroking the underside of his tongue with yours.

Explore the rest of her tongue and mouth.

Try gently sucking on it. Warning don't suck too hard - it is painful.

Approach French kissing the same way you approach making love, as a way of expressing your love for him.

Keep it gentle and live for the moment of the kiss and you will find a whole new meaning to the French kiss.

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