Have you ever wondered whether or not a guy was really into you? I admit I have been there. There were times I would think myself half to death about whether a guy was really into me or not. Then I realized that to determine the answer, all you have to do is look at what the guy is doing.

You know how they say that actions speak louder than words? When it comes to guys and their feelings for you, this is your only mantra. Ignore whatever a man says and pay very close attention to what he does.

Remember that guys are skilled when it comes to saying exactly what it is that you want to hear for the sole purpose of getting into your pants. You want to keep your head on and your eyes open. Do not ever allow yourself to be swayed by the sweet nothings and the empty promises.

Now, here is what you need to pay attention to. If a guy is really interested in you, he will:

1. Call you often. He wants to hear from you. He wants to hear your voice. He wants to hear about your day and what funny, silly, little thing happened. He wants to know how you are doing. Quite simply, he wants to connect with you.
   
   
2. Ask you out. He wants to spend time with you. He wants to be close to you and try to impress you at the same time.
   
   
3. Ask you about you. He is genuinely interested in your life, your goals, dreams and aspirations. He wants to know everything there is to know about you. He steers the conversation back to you and does not spend an inordinate amount of time talking about himself unless you ask him a question directly.
   

These are the top three ways to tell if the guy you are dating is really into you and if he is worth your time and emotions. If the guy you like or are seeing is not doing ALL of the above, then I really hate to break it to you but he is probably not that interested.

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