When I'm on Course toward my Heart's Desire
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How do I know when it's time to move forward? If my work is just giving me income, what could make it also a source of satisfaction? If I asked each time I felt dissatisfied 'How can I get through this creatively, so I can experience contentment,' I might do all sorts of things differently. When I'm noticing fear, confusion, procrastination, or a lack of support, and pay attention to that experience, getting to my heart's desire is much easier. Focusing on what would make me happy (instead of what's making me unhappy) is like the starting bell at the races. I become attuned to the track ahead and am on course. I find that getting clear on whether this situation, whether it is work, love, family, service, or any number of activities is leading me to fulfillment needs to be reflected on regularly. If I say I want a beautiful garden and it's June and I haven't bought the seeds yet, I might reflect on if I'm gardening for me or so I can have the image of me as a gardener. If I say I want to grow spiritually, but only read novels and don't meditate or talk to others about how I can grow, I might conclude that my goal is not showing up as that important. Maybe my desire for that has changed. It's okay to change my mind along the way. When I'm on course about my heart's desire, like a skater training for the Olympics, it's easier to bring that into manifestation. I remind myself that balance may be equally important. If I spend the majority of my time surfing the web'I'm an information enthusiast'how does that contribute to my financial security or my friendships or my health? I'd love to believe that I can simply do what feels right, and intuition can certainly give me guidance. However, I'm convinced that I need to make commitments in order to truly have my heart's desire. Unfortunately for this person who'd prefer to 'do my thing', that usually means setting up a plan and getting support and being accountable for what I commit to. I know I like acknowledgment and recognition when I get new articles up on the web, regular speaking engagements, and more coaching clients. I also know that won't happen by hoping. I notice there are some shoulds about the amount of time and energy I ought to put out to get what I want. The main thing that works on shoulds for me is when I keep my attention on the desired results. When I know I'll like the consequences or outcomes of my actions, I'm like a horse with blinders'I can only see what's ahead and am not easily distracted. I find I'm willing to go full out for what I want when I can visualize with my various senses how it will look or feel or taste. For those times that I balk, I might affirm "I get to feel good about everything I do" or "I approve of myself." I also follow my own11 principles for the pursuit of pleasure, because it makes the steps toward my dream more appealing. When I can be at ease, unstressed, in any situation or circumstance I am in, I am able to garner all my resources toward my goal. Hurrah! I get to be content with my now and also move toward my heart's desire!
Moreah Vestan has an M.A. in Adult Education, and is a Life Coach, Nonviolent Communication trainer, and a monthly columnist since 1992 for
Seattle's Active Singles Life. Her book of essays, Pleasures and Ponderings: From Nun to Nudist to Now, was published in Jan. 2004.
One of the 8 sections is called "Finding Mr. Right, Again and Again."
The book is previewed here.
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