Most women are really good at flirting and know how to do it, but when it comes to guys, they usually have no clue. Here are 16 different flirting tips for guys that will help you get the girl.

The key is that you want to be competitive with women, but playfully competitive. If you can manage this, you will be more successful with women than you ever thought you could be.

16 Flirting Tips to Memorize

1. When she says that she is a good girl, tell her you only like bad girls.
2. When you are playing a game, make a bet on the outcome. Cheat if you have to win!
3. When you are watching a movie, throw popcorn at her.
4. When she is lying down, tickle her arms, legs and stomach.
5. When she tells you she likes a shirt, tell her that you think it looks terrible.
6. When she says she wants to go home, tell her that you don't want to go home with her, because you hardly know her. Imply that she is a bad girl.
7. When she says something is cool, give her a weird look.
8. When she is sitting next to you on the bed, give her a push off of it.
9. When she sits down next to you, scoot away from her.
10. When she is talking to you, take the hat right off of her head, and don't give it back.
11. When she tries to convince you that she is cool, call her a dork.
12. When she does something (anything!), stick your tongue out at her.
13. When she says something is ugly, tell her how much you like it.
14. When she says that she likes a particular actor, claim that she has a crush on him.
15. When she puts her hand on your leg, give her a strange look like she is coming on to you.
16. When she does something embarrassing, act like you are going to walk away.

Why These Tips Work

If you are confused, don't worry! Here's why these tips work.

Women communicate indirectly. This means that when she hits you or teases you, it actually means that she likes you and wants to learn more about you.

Don't stop being competitive with her. You can't do too much of this, so don't worry. If you keep up this emotion, you'll have her interested in your mystery.

Don't say that you are sorry. If you tell her that she looks dorky in that shirt one minute and then apologize for it a second later, you are going to lose the interest she is giving you really quickly.

Why shouldn't you apologize? The second that you say you are sorry, you lose a bit of the interest and intrigue that she had for you. If she starts wanting you to compliment her by asking you if her hair looks good, don't act impressed. She's testing you to see if you are just putting on an act.

What to Say?

Another of the important flirting tips for guys is that there is nothing that is right to say. Every guy has a different style, and it is up to you to find out what your style is.

When you are talking to her, a woman is looking for some of the personality traits that she wants in a man. When you realize this, you will be able to come up with great conversations. Remember, that you want to show your confidence of what you are saying when you are talking to a woman.

Don't forget that there are many other factors that will determine if a girl is interested in you or not. Here are some of the reasons a girl may not be interested in guys:

• Has just gotten out of a bad relationship
• Be sick of dating, and want a break from everyone.
• Be dating someone else
• Not be attracted to guys

Believe me when I say that you really learn a lot more when a conversation or flirting attempt on a beautiful woman goes wrong. What you need to do is get a journal and write down how each interaction went, so you can learn from your mistakes and track your progress.

The best of the flirting tips for guys is to always act playfully competitive when you are talking to women. If you can manage this, you will be able to get women to be attracted to you.

©2006 Chris Williamson

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