10 tips to Kick Start Your Self Esteem!
by
If you're tired of feeling "less than", afraid of making and achieving your desires and goals, feel that no matter what you do it is never "good enough", then your self esteem could do with a boost! Having low self esteem takes an enormous toll on the quality of your life. You take fewer risks, which limits your opportunities, both personally and professionally. You are reluctant to voice or acknowledge your needs. You are probably also haunted by past mistakes and making future ones. It doesn't have to be like this, the tools you've used to (unconsciously) lower your self esteem are the same ones you use to raise it. The following article gives you ten tips to raise your self esteem and improve the quality of your life! 1. Stop comparing yourself to other people. If you play this game, you're likely to compare yourself in a negative way and set yourself up for continuing to have low self esteem. Why continue to play a game where you've set the rules against yourself, so that you're less likely to win! 2. Don't keep putting yourself down! You can't develop high self esteem if you constantly repeat negative comments about your skills and abilities. Other people will pick up on it and take on board the negative way you view yourself. How are they likely to treat you? Also don't beat yourself up over "mistakes" that you've made - learn how to reframe them so that they work for you. 3. Using affirmations is an excellent way to raise your self esteem. It's the opposite of no 1. If you can programme your mind to repeat negative phrases about yourself (and see how effective that's been!), then you can certainly get into the habit of continually thinking (and saying to yourself) positive statements about you. When you do, allow yourself to experience the positive feelings about your statements. Also use inspirational quotes to assist you. 4. Accept all compliments graciously. Don't dismiss or ignore them. When you do you give yourself the message that you do not deserve or are not worthy of praise, which reflects low self esteem. It also means that others will become more reluctant to praise or acknowledge your abilities, if you don't. 5. Take advantage of and use life coaching programmes, workshops, books on how to raise your self esteem and develop a more positive attitude. Whatever material you see, read acts as subliminal learning, which means that it will plant itself in your mind and dominate your behaviour. Talk about food for thought - what diet is your mind on? Is it a nourishing one? 6. Mix with positive and supportive people. Who you associate with influences your thoughts, actions and behaviour - another form of subliminal learning. Negative people can put you and your ideas down and it lowers your self esteem. On the other hand, when you are surrounded by supportive people, you feel better about yourself, which helps to raise your self esteem. Learn how to develop your positive personal support network. 7. Acknowledge your positive qualities and skills. Too many people with low self esteem constantly put themselves down (back to no 1 again!) and don't appreciate their many positive attributes. Learn how to truly affirm and value your many excellent qualities. If you find this difficult, ask others to tell you. They'll come up with things you would never have imagined! 8. Stop putting up with stuff! Not voicing or acknowledging your needs means that you are probably tolerating more than you should. Find out what you're putting up with and zap those tolerations. By doing so, you're giving yourself the message that you're worth it. 9. Make positive contributions to others. This doesn't mean that you constantly do for others what they could be doing for themselves. But when you do make a positive contribution to others, you begin to feel more valuable, which increases your sense of your own value and raises your self esteem. 10. Involve yourself in work and activities that you love. So many people with low self esteem stop doing those activities that they most enjoy. Even if you're not in a position to to make immediate changes in your career, you can still devote some of your leisure time to enjoyable hobbies and activities. and.............................. Start taking action! The universe rewards action. Backing away and avoiding challenges means that your self esteem muscles become weak and flabby. When you start to take action - regardless of the outcome - you will start to feel better about yourself, develop your self confidence and raise your self esteem. ©2003 Show All Articles By Julie PlentyJulie Plenty is a Personal and Business Coach who coaches self employed creative professionals to live more creative, fulfilled lives and increase the success of their business. To sign up for the Life Design newsletter and register for a special offer on her forthcoming ebook on Kicking the Procrastination Habit! visit: www.self-help-personal-development.com
Back To Article IndexBurn the Fat, Feed the Muscle
Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle is a 337 page fat burning success manual in e-book format jam-packed cover to cover with all the fat destroying methods previously known by only a small handful of the worlds best fitness models and bodybuilders. This program contains all the information you'll ever need to help you shed body fat permanently without muscle loss and without using drugs or unnecessary supplements. Get the FACTS on exactly how, what & when to eat and how to train to achieve maximum fat loss, without losing muscle or slowing down your metabolism... AND to discover the shocking truth about the diet, weight loss and supplement industries, Whatever your goals, when you finally decide to stop making the same mistakes that have been holding you back and you diligently begin applying the techniques in Burn the Fat Feed the Muscle, you can literally choose any body you want:
|
||
|
Home Articles Columns Products Poems Links Find A Date Newsletter Match Making Sites
For women
For men Dating Relationships Getting Ex Back Separation Parenting Sexuality Fitness Self Improvement
Dating-P.1
Dating-P.2 Dating-P.3 Relationships-P.1 Relationships-P.2 Loneliness Separation Parenting Sexuality Fitness Self Improvement Business and Finance Miscellaneous GirlsDo you have the enchanting personality that is irresistible to men? Take this quiz and find out.
Love Notes
by Larry James Direct Answers by Wayne & Tamara Mitchell Dr. Dennis W.Neder by Dr. Dennis W.Neder Ask The Coach by Toni Coleman |
Get 5 Free Ebooks with my Newsletter 
2: The Message Of A Master Sorry no AOL email addresses Red Fields Are Required Burn The Fat, Feed The MuscleStop Getting Ripped Off! Learn the truth about diets, weight loss programs and fat burning supplements Get the FACTS on exactly how, what & when to eat and how to train to achieve maximum fat loss, without losing muscle or slowing down your metabolism... AND to discover the shocking truth about the diet, weight loss and supplement industries, 
The first at-home bodysculpting program designed for women by a woman! The Body Sculptress is an ACSM certified Health and Fitness Instructor and professional health and fitness consultant with many years experience in the fitness industry. At Home With the Body Sculptress is designed to help you become better than you ever dreamed possible! You will discover the most powerful and most health-beneficial life-giving, head-turning, energy-sustaining, youth-returning, fat-burning and muscle-toning program that you will ever find. Being fit positively affects everything in your life... your health; your mood; your sex life; your relationships with your friends, family and yourself; your financial success....everything. Is it enough to live life halfway? No! Is it enough to WISH you could have the body you desire? No! It's not. You can make your life better... you know in your heart that by losing weight and getting in shape you will be happier, healthier, more self-confident and live life much more fully. You'll LOVE how you begin to LOOK in just one week, let alone 4!"I can REALLY tell a difference. When we took my "after" photos this summer, I was at 25% body fat (from 35% body fat in February), and I thought that I was doing great then! Now I'm at 18 1/2% body fat and I have to go shopping again because the NEW THIN clothes that I got are hanging on me! My legs have never looked so good. I no longer have that fat around my knees and for the first time ever I can see muscle tone. I was travelling recently and used a fitness center with mirrors. I was very surprised to see my legs from all angles. They looked great and they were mine!! Thank you!" Lynn Jacobs The top models of the wolrd know what it takes to get a beautiful thong body, and you are about to learn it, too.
Fit At 40! is different from any other fitness program you've ever seen. You don't need a gym membership or expensive home fitness equipment. You don't need fad diets, doctor prescribed (or over the counter) medication. You don't need videotapes, DVDs or manuals. You don't need anything but the guidance, support, motivation and accountability The Body Sculptress will provide. That's it! At Home With the Body Sculptress will give you a stronger, leaner and sexier body
|
