Ending An Affair
You are heading for divorce with all the emotional and financial problems it entails if you don't put an end to your extramarital affair.
You know that you have to end the affair, but how do you do it without hurting anyone?
You can't, there is no painless solution to ending an affair.
You have good reasons for ending an affair.
Do you love your spouse and children? Think of the devastation your actions are causing or will cause if you get caught.
You are spending your time and energy on your extramarital love affair, not on your family. This is a sure road to a marriage breakdown.
Trying to juggle your affair and your family life is causing you no end of stress and grief.
How do you end an affair?
Do you even want to end the affair? If you don't it's going to make it doubly hard for you to do.
You have to make a choice between your spouse or your lover. You can't continue to have it both ways.
There's no easy way out of this. You have to tell someone that you can't see him or her anymore. It's going to hurt both of you.
Be kind and try to make it quick and painless as possible.
Be honest with the person you are breaking up with. Tell him or her that you can't go on this way and you have to leave.
Hold your ground and don't break down to any pleading or suggestions about giving it a second chance.
Right now is the only right time for ending an affair. If you wait for the opportune moment you will be waiting forever. It will never come.
You're in a messy situation and the only way out is to take charge and make the difficult decisions you need to make, and then end the affair or your marriage.
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©2009 Gary Caine
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