End An Affair: Should You Stop Having An Affair?

by Gary Caine

You thought that you would be the last person to ever cheat on your spouse, but somehow it happened and you now find yourself having an extramarital affair.

You are scared you will be caught, you are ashamed of the way you've been treating your spouse, yet the affair is making you feel excited, young and vibrant again.

You don't know what to do. You can't stand the thought of not seeing him or her again, but you are having a terrible time dealing with your feelings of guilt.

You are torn between wanting to be in the arms of your lover and not wanting to hurt your spouse.

Ending an affair is usually the right choice, but it's not always the case.

Common reasons for having an affair.

These are a few of the reasons people end up having affairs. They aren't justification for cheating except in extreme cases.

  • Loneliness
  • Need for attention
  • Unresponsive partner
  • Need to feel attractive to opposite sex.
  • Need for intimacy.
  • Desire for excitement in a relationship.
  • Loving someone besides your spouse.
  • For the sex.

Reasons to end an affair.

Here are just a few reasons you should end the affair, and I'm sure you have a few more of your own.

  • It's morally wrong.
  • You will regret it eventually.
  • Your spouse doesn't deserve it.
  • You could destroy your marriage.
  • You are hurting your spouse, or will eventually.
  • Lose of self respect and the respect of others.
  • Sooner or later you will be caught.
  • Feeling of guilt.

There is rarely justification for having an affair. If you can't end your affair maybe you should seriously consider divorce.

You can decide to end the affair.

You can decide that marriage isn't for you and ask for a divorce.

You can live with the way things are.

What are your decison going to be?

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©2009 Gary Caine

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