Is It Ego? Or Clear Thinking?
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A radical feminist is getting on a bus when, just in front of her, a man gets up from his seat. She thinks to herself, "Here's another man trying to keep up the customs of a patriarchical society by offering a poor, defenseless woman his seat," and she pushes him back onto the seat. A few minutes later, the man tries to get up again. She is insulted again and refuses to let him up. Finally, the man says, "Look, lady, you've got to let me get up. I'm two miles past my stop already!" Well, there you go. Here the woman thought she had a grip on the truth and, in fact, it was her ego that had a grip on her. Call it ego, call it pride. It is too often the thing that gets in the way of clear thinking. Such is the nature of man. For some reason he is always thinking he has to prove himself to others. What foolishness. It comes from insecurity, from not being confident with oneself. These same people are the ones who have to be kept busy shopping, or have the television or radio on, or are always talking, or who have to sleep with the lights on. They do not have sufficient self confidence to live with themselves. These are the ones who will always try to prove their worth. I know people who feel they must justify their every act. They fail to understand that it is all right to do something just because you want to do it and that you don't need to explain that to anyone. As cowboy logic puts it, "Never miss a good chance to shut up." That's right. Why don't you just keep quiet once in a while to observe what is going on. You don't have to contribute to every conversation or everything that is happening. When you sit and observe you will learn - lots, and you will be asked to participate when they want you. It gets to be a treat when you no longer try to prove things. Life gets better for you and everyone around you. Keep your ego under control and navigate your way with good clear thinking. The rewards you seek will come faster. Your ego is no friend, ever. Only clear thinking is your ally. So watch and ask ... Is It Ego? Or Clear Thinking?
Ken Darby writes articles, books and other
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