I can't take babble and distortion of truth. I could probably babble and distort and create a dozen products, but I'd rather just be the BEST, not the biggest.

You won't see me having McDonald's style The Dating Wizard franchises, because I know that the effort and quality and passion and integrity I insist on is something that simply can't be HIRED even for billions.

So I know that if I want a job done right, I better do it myself. Whether it's a bootcamp, consultation in person or over the phone, or being directly involved in every last aspect of the production of my Seduction Mastery Program, I know that no one on Earth cares about the quality as much as I do. So there will never be a McDonaldsization of the Wizardry.

And in that tradition, I'm about to personally smash the living daylights out of some huge distortions on this whole topic of pick up and attraction and I'm going to CLEAR up some REALLY IMPORTANT things on these issues, on everything from pickup to long-term success.

First of all, there is a BIG difference between being a COOL GUY and being able to pick up women from a COLD approach, from scratch. A woman who is a complete stranger as opposed to a woman you already know a bit from your circle of work or friends etc.

Being a COOL GUY is PART of being able to pick up a woman, but it's NOT enough.

I've met TONS of cool guys who CANNOT do cold pickups. I've had really cool guys who were in fact celebrities and actors who can't really do pickup, unless the girl starts the convo first.

There is a SIMPLE reason for this: If you are a COOL guy, then once you are with a woman, i.e. dating her or in a relationship with her, she gets to SEE you as a cool guy, your sense of humor, your demeanor, your passion, your sense of calm, your hobbies, etc etc.

The guy who is cool can EVENTUALLY show a woman all his coolness but only IF he gets the chance to get some TIME with her. i.e. Social circle type stuff where he gets repeated encounters with her or through social circle party where it's all everyone kind of knows everyone or it's more "acceptable" to start a convo with anyone in the room.

But the thing about PICK UP is that you must be able to SHOW COOLNESS or as I like to call it SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE, within SECONDS.

You don't HAVE days or weeks for her to learn all about you. You could be GOD in disguise, but she wouldn't know it unless you had a way to make lightning strike and thunder boom.

THIS is what the art of being able to attract a woman INSTANTLY is about.

It's about making IMPACT, and making impact FAST. And it's about taking things to a sexual level FAST. Not necessarily having sex within minutes of course, but definitely taking things to a sexually laced level FAST. You have to stand out in a good way FAST.

If you don't do this FAST, she simply has no way of knowing why you are different from the other trillion guys. So what do you want from her life? How is she supposed to know all there is to know about you?

So you see there are different things:

• Being a cool guy.
• Being able to do pickup on the spot.
• Being able to keep a woman attracted long term.

There is often overlap between these things, but they are also different, they don't NECESSARILY overlap. I know plenty of pick up artists who couldn't keep a good woman long term, and I know plenty of cool guys who couldn't pick up for their lives. I also know plenty of guys with great women in long term relationships that probably don't even seem cool and certainly not able to do pickup!

Each one of these things tends to have its own dynamic. Yes, there is overlap but in GENERAL there is a different dynamic- i.e. if you are into pickup more than you are into getting serious with women, then chances are you will thrive in the club environment where it's super easy to meet women on the same wavelength.

The only thing that is COMMON to all these things is VALUE. If at any point, a guy is coming across as INFERIOR it's GAME OVER for him, regardless of whether it's pickup, relationships, or anything else to do with women.

The thing is, if you have the SKILL to do pickup, it can be a great asset to relationships, it can make you an even COOLER guy, it can also help you in life in general because of the TRAITS it develops in you: It makes you TOUGHER, it makes you think FAST on your feet, it makes you RESOURCEFUL, it thickens your skin and makes you resilient to a lot of stuff that would wipe out your typical guy, etc. It teaches you to push yourself and to control your state of mind and not to let negative stuff make you lose your playful edge, etc.

I want to also be RUTHLESS here in telling you the TRUTH about what it takes to be great at pickup.

In the REAL world, when you are picking up a girl who is SMOKING HOT, and she doesn't know you from Adam, it MAKES a difference that you are actually FUNNIER than the other guys she meets. This funny though has to come with CONFIDENCE and you have to also know how and when to be dominance and not be "clown", but it COUNTS.

• Having more GUTS counts.
• Having BETTER TONALITY counts.
• Having BETTER social finesse to handle her friends and make her friends LOVE you too COUNTS.
• The way you dress COUNTS.
• Working out also COUNTS.
• Being witty COUNTS.
• Being laid back and knowing when and where to pour on the juice
COUNTS.

Remember, I'm not talking here about how to pick up Granny Smith. I'm talking here about REAL WORLD HOTTIES.

Your ability to also CALIBRATE counts MASSIVELY. You have to know how to understand the girl in front of you, not on some Dr. Phil level, but rather you have to be able to get if she is insecure, confident, a party girl, a girl who wants the white picket fence, etc. And you have to understand her CORE values, not the things she SAYS are her values. And you have to learn to do this while having a fun, interesting interaction, because if you suddenly go Dr. Phil on her and start asking her too many weird questions like "what are your core values", and you go NLP on her, you will just look WEIRD and totally freakazoid.

This might sound like a lot to know, and in a way it is. The thing is, once you start practicing this stuff SERIOUSLY, it all starts to gel together within a few weeks. Things start to actually make SENSE and you start to wonder how the heck you could have done things any OTHER way in the past. I MEAN this. You start to FEEL the skills inside of you that you never even knew EXISTED. Like muscles you never knew even existed until you started working on them.

Also, you start to realize that this stuff is also FUN. We were MEANT to develop these dimensions of ourselves, just like we were MEANT to exercise and not just sit around all day behind a desk.

I'm not saying you will become a master in just a few weeks, but in just a few weeks you can become WAY BETTER than you were! I'm talking WAAAAAAAAAY better. Like better- than-anyone-you-know-around you better. THAT kind of better.

And that improvement will motivate you to CONTINUE to improve to mastery if you continue with it.

But let me assure you again:
THE REAL WORLD IS NOT A KINDERGARTEN.
It's fun, YES.
But you have to PAY THE PIPER.
You have to be willing to GIVE IT ALL YOU GOT.
You have to be willing to EMBRACE a little "pain". Yeah, if a girl not doing CARTWHEELS for you on your first approach is pain, then heck yeah, you better get used to realizing that is NOT pain.

You know, if there is one thing about ALL winners, it's that they TAKE THE PUNCHES, and KEEP ON GOING. Maybe that's why Rocky has been etched into immortality, because the icon has personified that which we know deep down is true and is necessary for success.

And if you are willing to do THAT, then make the MOST of that effort by having the very BEST insight into all this stuff.

You don't have to get MORE PUNCHES than necessary. The idea is to be WILLING to accept the pain, but only for the purpose of GROWING AND GETTING BETTER, not to simply be a glutton for punishment.

You can now get the most ADVANCED and ACCURATE information about what you need to do to be MOST effective at pickup and also effective for LONG TERM success by ordering my Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program.

You will learn the most ADVANCED skills of attraction, combining the best information for INSTANT pick ups AND for long term success. This program was literally years in the making. I poured all my real world experience into it and it shows.

But there's just one thing I need to say before you order:

Please, do not order if you plan to just listen and not apply it.

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