What Women Want From A Relationship With Men - Part 2
by
Debbie Anderson Nowadays, it's a whole new ballgame in the relationship arena. In the past, women needed men for economic reasons, and were willing to mold themselves to please their men because, basically, they were getting paid to do so! Now, women earn their own money outside of the home, thereby putting a new twist on what they require or need from a relationship. Men now need to ask themselves, "what can I bring to this relationship that will induce the woman of my dreams to share my life?" Although it most probably would be easier to import a woman from a country which still places a value on the woman staying in the home and catering to her husband, if a man wants a woman in this country (the United States) he will have to change the way he thinks and maintains relationships. For some men, this will be too difficult a transition, and they will seek to acquire their women from another country rather than learning new behavior. And that's okay, but they need to be up front about it. You can't have your cake and eat it too, anymore. Most women will not be willing to bring home half the bacon, clean the house, cater to your needs, and be willing to be available for those sexual times that pop up when you decide you have nothing more exciting to do! Women want the same things men do...they want to be respected for who they are, they want you to be proud of them, and they want you to desire them. (And here's a hint, guys, the desire women want to feel from you is not what happens first thing in the morning when you wake up...that is a call to go to the bathroom) Women get really upset when you confuse the two actions, and then try to convince them that those two actions are one and the same. We do know the difference! So, how do we make this work while trying to find someone through the internet? First of all, you have to know what it is you really want. If you want someone to cater to your every need, then say so. If you want someone who will look good on your arm, say so. There are some women who will still be willing to be a trophy wife. If you want someone to respect you and to admire you, then be yourself. There is someone out there who will love you just the way you are. Someone who will not criticize your habits, or try to fix your flaws....she will love your flaws because they are part of who you are. But you will not find her until you show her who you are. It is so much easier to be yourself, than to try to figure out what she wants, and then try to live up to it. The subterfuge becomes apparent the minute she believes your made up story, and then unknowingly pushes the wrong button. I have a friend I met on the internet who says to me, "I like the way you think." You have no idea how good that makes me feel. Try it sometime. For me, using the internet for the purposes of finding someone who might share my life, offers me unlimited opportunities to find out what my buttons are, and whether or not they are reasonable in light of my current situation. When I find that a button no longer serves the purpose for which it was created, I can let it go. If you are serious about finding that one relationship, the internet can certainly become a very useful tool. Debbie Anderson is a frequent writter for The Singles Cafe ©1999 Debbie Anderson Show All Articles By Debbie Anderson
Back To Article IndexSecrets To Success With Women For Shorter Men
If you are a shorter man, you may be like many who face a dilemma when it comes to dating and relationships. You've heard that women prefer taller men over short guys. And you are not a taller man. Are you frustrated because you are not experiencing the success with women that you know you deserve? If so, are you thinking that your troubles are because you are short? Think again |
||
|
Home Articles Columns Products Poems Links Find A Date Newsletter Match Making Sites
For women
For men Dating Relationships Getting Ex Back Separation Parenting Sexuality Fitness Self Improvement
Dating-P.1
Dating-P.2 Dating-P.3 Relationships-P.1 Relationships-P.2 Loneliness Separation Parenting Sexuality Fitness Self Improvement Business and Finance Miscellaneous GirlsDo you have the enchanting personality that is irresistible to men? Take this quiz and find out.
Love Notes
by Larry James Direct Answers by Wayne & Tamara Mitchell Dr. Dennis W.Neder by Dr. Dennis W.Neder Ask The Coach by Toni Coleman |
Get 5 Free Ebooks with my Newsletter 
2: The Message Of A Master Sorry no AOL email addresses Red Fields Are Required The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with WomenWould you like to be able to simply walk right up to an attractive woman, be able to get her phone number, have a date with her that week, and have her dream about you? Well, it does not have to be a fantasy. It could be your reality. And the greatest thing about this formula is that all you have to be...is YOU. The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women shows you exactly what to do, step by step, from A-Z, from meeting a woman, to getting her number, to dating and relationships. Here's How To Attract The Women You've Always WantedSuppose you could say a few simple phrases and have a woman fall head over heels for you? Just like the dating masters, imagine you walk into a local bar. With a confident smile, you effortlessly approach a beautiful woman and introduce yourself. Then you make her laugh, smile and enjoy your company to the point that she bites her lip, trying to hold back her obvious attraction for you. Listen, whether you want to pick up hot chicks every night and enjoy amazing sex or just win over your dream girl and snuggle up on the couch together, "Flirting Formula - Dating Success System" will help you to reach your goals. How to Be Irresistible to WomenMEMBERSHIP PROVIDES ACCESS TO: "How to Be Irresistible to Women" Online Course - Now in its fifth year! Plus you also get access to the members area where you get:
Click Here To Lean More About Becoming A Member |
