Although Candles And A Bottle Of Wine Can Help, It Takes More To Set The Perfect Mood

Try appealing to the 5 senses by using props like an indoor fountain to create that special relaxing atmosphere for an evening of romance, but keep in mind that the biggest turn on starts with you.

Environmental factors can help enhance the romantic ambience and mood in a relationship, However, creating the "perfect storm" between two lovers is based on more important factors; however there are some small yet very effective steps you can take to create a romantic flare to solid relationship. Creating the perfect mood and atmosphere really starts at the depth of your relationship. Hormones and desire are developed at a deep level within a caring respectful relationship. Kindness, gentleness, respect and commitment are some of the strongest aphrodisiacs available and are the true foundation to a romantic experience. These items are truly the first foundation for creating a romantic atmosphere and setting the mood. The rest is just icing on the cake and helps tie it all together.

Other enhancements will build off of those core values in your relationship. As you think about creating the perfect setting we can't forget about the 5 senses that help us experience every situation within our lives. Our 5 senses should be considered as you think about creating that ideal romantic ambiance.

Sight - It is easier to feel sexy when the room is neat and clean. The décor can also create a special feel. It is amazing what a coat of paint, new sheets, or window coverings can do to a room. Lighting can play a huge role. A simple dimmer switch can be the right touch or the flickering of candle light creates a sensual environment. Strategically placed mirrors can also do wonders. I would also suggest an indoor water fountain. These units create a very exotic atmosphere that is not only relaxing but very romantic. An indoor fountain can range from a table top fountain to a wall mounted fountain but the results can be the same. Each individual room will dictate a different style or model. It's easier to feel sexy if the atmosphere is inspiring and inviting rather than boring, drab or tasteless.

Touch - This can become more intimate, but certain fabrics and textures can have very sensual effects. Soft inviting fabrics within furniture, flooring, clothing and obviously bedding are excellent turn-ons. Some attentive care in selecting the right fabrics will definitely pay off.

Taste - Many people already know the power of food and beverages to enhance a romantic experience. Chocolate, strawberries, mints, a favorite cocktail or wine are typical favorites. Experiment here also. There are many beliefs regarding the influence of aphrodisiac foods, but I will let you be the judge of their powers. A romantic meal does not need to be limited to an expensive restaurant, take some time and prepare a multi-course meal to create a very sexy and romantic evening.

Hearing - Music is also a huge mood setter. Take the time to select and purchase a variety of music that can aid in creating your desired atmosphere. Again, an indoor fountain can add some very soothing and romantic sounds to a room. The natural sounds of water bring an air of romance and mystery.

Smell - fresh cut flowers, scented candles or incense, perfume, lotions or even potpourri can help. The moving water from an indoor fountain can also bring a fresh natural scent to a room. Many people can relate particular smells to particular intimate experiences. Use these to your advantage, Don't over use these smells in everyday use, rather save them for those moments that you can use them to tempt, tease and entice your lover. Use your favorites, but don't be scared to try some new ones.

As you think about pleasing your lover and creating the perfect romantic atmosphere, don't overlook any of their 5 senses. We were designed to experience life with each of our senses so don't overlook them when you think about creating the ideal romantic atmosphere. But remember, you will really experience the true power from these little hints and tricks within a romantic relationship that is built on a recipe of commitment, kindness, respect and love.

©2007 Garth Epp

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