Cheaters, Affairs and Infidelity Warning Signs
You may have a gut feeling that your spouse is cheating, and you may even be seeing some signs of infidelity, but stop and think. Is it possible that there's another logical explanation?
If you let your suspicions get out of hand you will be able to find signs of infidelity in just about everything your spouse does, but the fact is that unless he or she admits to it or is caught in the act, there's no set of signs that are undeniable proof of cheating.
Simply because you are seeing some changes in your spouse's behavior doesn't automatically mean he or she is having an extra martial affair. There are any number of other possibilities that could explain his or her actions.
Men aren't automatically cheaters because you see these signs of infidelity
Maybe your husband did stop smoking and started going to the gym every day because he's trying to look and smell good to impress some young woman he's been seeing. He may even be meeting her there, but he may just as well be doing it because he's come to the realization that he better start looking after himself if he wants to avoid having a heart attack or stroke
Don't jump to the conclusion that he has something going on with that pretty young secretary at work when he calls to tell you that he has to work late. There could be something unusual going on at work that requires his presence, or he might have a reason to want to earn some extra money.
These signs of infidelity don't prove women are having affairs
You may question why you wife is suddenly dressing sexier and never leaves the house without first checking her makeup. It may be that she decided that she's not as young and sexy looking as she used to be, and wants to do something about it, not because she's having an affair.
Another man in her life may not be the reason your wife is acting secretive and going to another room to talk on the phone. There could be a perfectly reasonable reason for all the secrecy such as planning a surprise party for you.
Cheaters, affairs and infidelity warning signs are everywhere, and you are well advised to keep an eye on your spouse to be sure that he or she doesn't end up with someone else. On the other hand you don't want to jump to conclusions and start making accusations when your spouse is innocent.
Before you make the mistake of accusing your spouse of being unfaithful check out the facts. An excellent tool to do that is "How To Catch A Cheating Spouse".
©2009 Gary Caine
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