After An Affair: How To Save Your Marriage
How are you going to save your marriage after you've been caught cheating on your spouse?
Divorce isn't the only possible outcome of an affair. Many marriages manage to survive infidelity. It will take some effort from both you and your spouse, but you can mend your relationship and save your marriage.
After an affair when you cheated on your spouse.
Should you even attempt to save your marriage?
Think about why you cheated in the first place.
Something is missing from your relationship with your spouse and you went elsewhere for it.
You might be better off if you just put an end to the marriage rather than try to save it.
The reason I ask is that you have to be absolutely sure you want to save your marriage before you can hope to do so.
You may find that Why Stay can help you decide.
Ending an affair isn't enough. You need to be certain that you aren't going to let something like this ever happen again.
You can be sure that your spouse will be asking questions about your cheating. Don't put your marriage in any more jeopardy than it already is by lying. Answer the questions frankly and honestly.
What are you going to say when your spouse asks you why you had an affair?
If part of the reason was because he or she wasn't making you happy how are you going to phrase the answer without making it seem like you are blaming him or her for your actions?
Prepare yourself for the question because it's going to come up, and it needs an honest answer.
It's going to take some time before your spouse is able to trust you again. The only way to help rebuild his or her trust is by your actions. You are going to have to prove that you can be trusted again.
The two of you can dwell on the affair and let it ruin your marriage, or you can focus on your relationship and make your marriage last the rest of your lives. The choice is yours to make.
You can't depend on the words in a single article to provide you with all the answers you need to save your marriage. I recommend you study and apply whats in Save My Marriage Today.
If you are the one that's been cheated on see How To Survive Infidelity And Save Your Marriage
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Why is it that some men simply adore their wives and would never even consider cheating on them? What is it about these women that set them apart? Find out at The Women Men Adore And Never Want To Leave.
©2009 Gary Caine
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