The Singles Cafe
Can You Revive Lost Feelings?
If you’ve lost feelings for your boyfriend or he’s revealed to you that he’s lost feelings for you, you may be wondering, “Is it possible to revive lost feelings?” It certainly is possible… with certain considerations.
If some infatuation has worn off but some feelings remain, than the relationship still stands a chance. If both partners work together and find common ground and interests, the relationship could blossom into something wonderful.
It is definitely possible to revive the lost feelings though. In the relationship that was based merely on infatuation, there isn’t much to do but accept what has happened and move on. In the relationship where a little feeling remains but the infatuation has worn off, one must consider if they’re willing to put in the work and live with the compromises. The relationship can be changed and improved if both partners work together.Many relationships can succeed if only the partners have the insight to make them work and more patience with each other.
Let’s consider the relationship of an imaginary couple, Chad and Amy. This couple has been together for 3 ½ years and while she wants the relationship to continue, he’s not sure. Chad still feels some feelings toward Amy but certainly not the infatuation he used to feel. Chad has an immature and irresponsible personality type and is wary of committing to a more serious relationship that requires a lot of work.
Amy desperately wanted to know if she could save the relationship. Could she make him grow up? Could she stand dealing with an immature mate? In the end, Amy developed the courage to change the things she could and to help Chad grow as a man. They are still together today.