Sometimes we women think that it is really hard to get a guy hooked on us. The truth is that it is the easiest thing in the world if you know exactly what you are doing. Sometimes it does take a while to figure it out but once you figure the secret out, you can literally pick, choose and have any guy you want. I am not kidding.

When you like a guy and he likes you, the best thing you can do as a woman is to chill out, relax and enjoy the time you spend with him.

You cannot inspire a guy to want to be around you if you are constantly worrying about whether or not he will be like the last boyfriend you had; or whether or not he is seeing someone else; or whether or not he loves you; or wondering what he's thinking about now. God forbid you actually speak these thoughts out loud...

To avoid worrying yourself sick and pushing the guy away in the process, here are a few tips you can use to get the guy you like hooked on you!

1. Chill out. I cannot stress this enough. Enjoy the dates you have with him and have fun in the moment. Show up, look pretty, flirt and call it a day.

2. Focus on YOU and what makes you the happy, vibrant human being that he likes and wants to be around. If you like shopping, go shopping. If you like getting your hair and nails done, go get your hair and nails done. Every once in a while, throw in a full body massage.

3. Continue to focus on pursuing your own dreams and goals. Do not put your life on hold for him or spend too much thinking about the relationship or the rapport that you two have. If you do not have your own projects and continue to focus on him and the relationship, you will end up smothering him and pushing him away. This is guaranteed.

4. Give him his space. Let him be a man. Allow him time to go do what guys do like hang out at sports bars; watch games; go bowling; go fishing; etc. When he has been away from you for a while, he will begin to crave your company.

5. Whatever you do, do not nag him about where he sees the relationship going. Do this a few times and this is sure to get him turned in the opposite direction and seeking to get far, far away from you.

You do not just want a guy to like you, right? You want him to be head over heels in love with you. You want a guy who would do anything for you.

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