Following are Six Simple Secrets that you should know about her. Consider this your Cheat-Sheet.

Secret #1
Romance is the key to her
Romance is routine maintenance--yeah, like your car--to keep things running smoothly. Remember all those romantic things you did to win her in the first place? Keep doing them now and then. If you let her know often that you care, she stays open and responsive to your sexual overtures.

I realize that you beoming romantic is easier said than done, but what most guys don't realize is that they are more romantic than they let on. Instead of me telling you to be more romantic it's easier to simply have you act on those thoughts or moments when you're thinking about her.

Call her just to say hi - she won't think you're a girl.

Buy her a gift "just because." She won't expect it all the time.

How about mailing a card or leaving a note where she'll find it? Save this one for the times you want to make a big impression. You don't have to do it often, but when you do, you'll score major points with her.

Secret #2
Talking is the way she connects with you
Women talk for the sheer pleasure of talking. It's how they connect to people. Because your woman has read this book she understands that a lot of what she talks about--all those little details--is boring to you. So, she's going to be more selective about what she says to you. But if you give her your full attention when she does talk to you, it becomes one of those romantic gestures. Got it?

And you know how she's always trying to get you to be "more intimate"? If you listen to her more, she'll think you are being more intimate. All you have to do is look at her and pay attention; she'll think she's died and gone to heaven. It's that important to her, and that simple.

Secret #3
She needs to hear you say you care
Most men don't understand that a woman's heart is delicate. Women need more emotional connection than men and it doesn't make them inferior. Men that want a woman who never complains or is never needy or weak aren't really interested in a woman. What they want is a professional. A woman that will be available whenever they like and will accomidate their desires. They only ask that you pay them accordingly.

I would recommend a real woman instead of a pretend one.

Secret #4
Making up is hard to do
When you fight with your partner, are you often surprised that it turned into a bigger event than it should have? If she's like most women, she tends to get going with her emotions and lets everything spill out. She doesn't mean a lot of what she says. Do your best to pay attention, let her vent, but don't let the words get to you. The best way to stop her in her tracks is ask her this simple question: "What do you need right now?"

She may want an apology or for you to simply put your arm around her. Don't try and solve the problem, ask her what she needs. If she's unreasonable (like saying she wants you to promise to never get upset with her...ever), then you would say, "I'm sorry, I can't promise that...is there something else I can give you right now?"

Just the fact that you are willing to offer can make bring healing back to your relationship quickly.

Secret #5
She likes to be pampered
Your woman naturally does for others. She appreciates the value of nurturing but all too often doesn't take the time to care for herself. You can score big time if once in a while you run a bubble bath for her, take her on a special trip or plan a romantic dinner, give her a gift certificate from her favorite shop or a trip to a day spa. Talk about getting a woman "in the mood." Wahoo!

Sure, she appreciates that you change the oil in her car, but it doesn't really tell her you love her, even though that may be what you mean. To pamper her just remember, personal luxuries.

Secret #6
She needs to feel secure
Your lady has a deep biological need to feel secure, to have a man provide for her and protect her. Financial security is obviously important, but even more than that, she needs to know you're there for her. That's one of the reasons she needs to hear you say "I love you."

What really helps is to give her ongoing affection and the reassurance of physical contact. If you do this every day, several times a day, you'll give her the security she needs. Hold her hand, put your arm around her, hug her, touch her in gentle and reassuring ways. The more secure she feels, the happier she'll be. When she's happy, she's open to you.

Yes, It's That Simple!

So there it is in a nutshell. Twelve Simple Secrets that could very well change your life forever. You can never know for sure what's going on with a woman, but you can certainly make everything a lot nicer for both of you, by following the advice you've just read.

Men complain that women nag, criticize, try to change them, are never satisfied, are too emotional and unpredictable. If you follow these Secrets and make them a habit, that irritating behavior should pretty much disappear. If it comes back, consider it a barometer of how you're doing. Then get the Secrets out and read them again.

The way to be a great lover is to be a romantic lover. When you focus on romance, she'll respond to you like never before. And she'll feel like she's the luckiest woman alive.

 

©2006-2011

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